March Madness, tailgates, house parties – these are almost rites of passage for many college students, and often, alcohol is part of the mix. As a parent, it can be disheartening to realize that your “kid” is engaging in risky behavior and making poor choices, like drinking and driving.
But the reality is that young adults make mistakes. If that involves getting arrested for operating a motor vehicle while intoxicated (OWI), it doesn’t have to derail their future. What matters most is how you respond.
Preventing charges in the first place
Having open conversations about the risks of drinking and driving can help young people make informed decisions. Before an arrest ever happens, you can talk to them about:
- Increased enforcement during big events and holidays
- How police spot impaired drivers, and how easily they can justify stopping someone
- Penalties for OWI, both legal and academic
- What to do and what not to do during a traffic stop
Remember, your child is more likely to listen if you approach the topic calmly and factually. Explain that an OWI can affect their future long after the legal consequences end.
Responding to the call
If the call comes that your child has been arrested for OWI, it’s natural to be upset. However, letting emotions cloud your judgment can be counterproductive. Instead, try to stay calm and assure your child that you support them, then immediately connect with an experienced attorney who understands Indiana’s legal landscape.
It’s important to arrange for your child’s release from jail, if necessary, and attend court hearings together. Your presence can provide emotional support and show the court that your child has strong family backing.
Moving forward after an OWI
After the legal storm, the journey to recovery begins. This experience can be a turning point—help your child learn from their mistake without allowing it to define their future. Considering the following ways you can do this:
- Ensure they fulfill all court requirements, including community service, counseling or other obligations.
- Connect them with substance abuse resources, such as counseling or support groups, to address any underlying issues.
- Help them understand and approach challenges with increased insurance rates, limited job opportunities and a permanent record.
By taking these steps, you can help your child learn from their mistake and move forward in a positive direction.